If I had the chance, this is what I would say:
1. You’re an introvert. That’s the reason why you feel like you’ve hit a wall when you’re around people for a few hours, the reason you prefer to be alone rather then go to a party, and the reason why you feel drained after talking to people. I know your frustrated and you don’t understand why you’re like this. But trust me, the day when you find out what introversion and extroversion is, will be one of the most freeing and
2. You’re not going to be You-Know-Who’s girlfriend. You aren’t going to be anyone’s girlfriend. Thank God for that. You’re thirteen, for goodness sake. You’re too young for a boyfriend, and too young to really understand how difficult relationships can be. Instead, focus on your family. Focus on your friendships. Romance and boyfriends and all that can definitely wait.
3: You don’t need to wear that much makeup. You really, really don’t. I know you think raccoon eyes and spider-leg eyelashes are attractive and will somehow miraculously make you popular, but it won’t. You’re wearing makeup for the wrong reasons. Makeup should be a fun expression of self, not a sign that says “LOOK AT ME PLEASE LOOK AT ME.”
4: Your grades do not define your intelligence. Don’t let anyone make you think that. Getting a D in math is not the end of the world, you’ll live.
5: Of course you don’t know what you want to do with your life! I’m twenty now, and I still don’t know what I want to do. So, please, don’t stress out about it. Relax and enjoy try to enjoy your teenage years.
What would you say?